Relational constraints...

Got this in a group email from "Gems of wisdom" series.. found it worthy of sharing..so just copy pasting ..

How we respect our indispensable relations can be known by retrospecting how far we fulfill our relational constraints. They can exist in different forms varying from person to person.A loving father expects his lillte son to come to him every day morning and say "Good morning , Father and love you "a son who loves his father would fulfill it with out cogitating whether he likes it or not because it is his father who has muckle of love for him expects it . On the flipper side an averting son would think that "Do I have to do it every day? how can he expect..? as I do not like it , I will act according to my mood " and would not do that even for this father who always thought of his son's happiness and gave his best possible care and time without any disinclination.Does not he deserve those small things after all the true concern, tending and love ?How far it can be justified?

Remember it is not what is important but always it is that who is important.We should decide what are indispensable relations for us and then throw away any hatred or aversion for those from our heart. Fulfilling relational constraints must be done for essential relations atleast not because they expect it but bacause they truely deserve it.

 
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Gopi Gandi.

Positive pictures...

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Gopi Gandi

Advertising..finding the new ways..

Today when I went to Prasadz for watching the pleasant visual treat..Alice in wonderland(3D)..two things pulled my attention...one is a huge vinyl poster of a ad about a car ...of course it is lil old but by seeing it I felt that nothing is ineligible for ad ..but the real interesting one is about a hospital..they put a old damaged car ( probably it might have met with an accident)..on the way out and sealed the area as if a real accident happened there..most of us would feel that some accident happened and the car is kept there..then if we observe cleary..there is a hording hanging to the wall with a hospital name asking to call them in case of such instances..:-)

It's a new and innovative way of publicising..what say,folks? :-)

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Gopi Gandi.

Deewali a gratifyng festival..

 Deewali a gratifying festival..reminds me of my childhood where we used to wait for deewali by counting days almost for a month, used to buy toy guns and play a lot with them..buy crackers and store them with utter most care :-)..used to make them dry..used to curse rain or clouds if they arrive..

All those days are gone now...This time I enjoyed the happiness in the eyes of lil dears by helping them when they were delighted lighting rockets and bursting crackers.. :-)

As this pleasurable festival is a symbol of  end of darkness and start of brightness..May this brings brightness in our lives as well..

Hope you all had a great deewali..

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Gopi Gandi.

Yetra naryasthu poojyante...

Apart from classic examples of our epics of Ramayana and Mahabharatha...we have lot of examples in our present-day world also to tell us how worse will be the world if women is not respected properly..

• In Srilanka most of teenagers said that they have become part of LTTE because of atrocities against few or all of women in their families.
• Hitler became such a violent person because of some incidents  happened to his mother in his child hood.
• Sivaji got support and revolted because of atrocities of the then rulers against women of other religion
• Satwanth singh promised in  golden temple to kill Indira Gandhi only after he believed that army sent by Indira gandhi did some great insults their women( though I have great respect for Indian army, I am putting here what he and most of the media believed to happened..)..

These can go to millions if I keep on going giving examples..

But a million dollar question is how we are bringing up our children or siblings or cousins?...whether we are imparting in them utmost respect for women which she deserves?

 "Yatra Naryastu Pujyante, Ramante Tatra Devata"...(Women Are Honored Where, Divinity Blossoms There)

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Gopi Gandi.

The four words...

Read some where in internet...just sharing good and really striking one...I hope u all will like it..

An eight-year-old boy approached an old man in front of a wishing well, looked up into his eyes, and said: "I understand you're a very wise man. I'd like to know the secret of life."

The old man looked down at the youngster and replied: "I've thought a lot in my lifetime, and the secret can be summed up in four words.

"The first is THINK. Think about the values you wish to live your life by.

"The second is BELIEVE. Believe in yourself based on the thinking you've done about the values you're going to live your life by.

"The third is DREAM. Dream about the things that can be, based on your belief in yourself and the values you're going to live by.

"The last is DARE. Dare to make your dreams become reality, based on your belief in yourself and your values."

And with that, Walter E. Disney said to the little boy,

"THINK, BELIEVE, DREAM and DARE."

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Gopi Gandi