How we respect our indispensable relations can be known by retrospecting how far we fulfill our relational constraints. They can exist in different forms varying from person to person.A loving father expects his lillte son to come to him every day morning and say "Good morning , Father and love you "a son who loves his father would fulfill it with out cogitating whether he likes it or not because it is his father who has muckle of love for him expects it . On the flipper side an averting son would think that "Do I have to do it every day? how can he expect..? as I do not like it , I will act according to my mood " and would not do that even for this father who always thought of his son's happiness and gave his best possible care and time without any disinclination.Does not he deserve those small things after all the true concern, tending and love ?How far it can be justified?Remember it is not what is important but always it is that who is important.We should decide what are indispensable relations for us and then throw away any hatred or aversion for those from our heart. Fulfilling relational constraints must be done for essential relations atleast not because they expect it but bacause they truely deserve it.
Thanks.
Gopi Gandi.
